Steven and I have a very smart daughter. Lilah is not only clever, she is quite quick with language, and picks things up after the first hearing.
Which is why it isn't that surprising that the other day -- maybe a few weeks ago, now -- when we were getting ready to go home from my last 10K run in Loch Lomond, Lilah was in her carseat and I was starting the car, and behind me clear as day, she thumps her doll down three times while saying, "Fucksake! Fucksake! Fucksake!"
I turn around, trying to be nonchalant, and ask, "Who says that?"
Lilah says, "Daddy."
So I say, right, Daddy says that, but Lilah doesn't say that.
...
yeah, that didn't work. not at all.
but in the interim, i can tell you that ignoring it doesn't make it stop. nor does asking her to say something else.
she can now use Fuck correctly in a sentence (generally just in frustration about something), or exclamation. so it has progressed. not digressed. or disintegrated. or been erased.
i don't want this to be here to stay. not now. not yet. i know i haven't got the cleanest language, but i try around lilah, and i would really like her to not say words like this just yet.
i mean, we're only hitting the 3 mark in September.
she also said "Shut up" the other day to Tia. now, this is not a word Steven or I ever, EVER use in the house. which means she's picking up things from her friends now, too.
oh my goddess how does one remedy a situation such as this?!?!?!?!!